Could more men in childcare have a real and lasting effect on the inherent prejudices of society (or only as long as the media take an interest)?


David at LEYF's Angel Nursery

What nobler employment, or more valuable to the state, than that of the man who instructs the rising generation.

Cicero

Was it fortuitous or bad timing that we launched the London Network of Men in Childcare amid the Jimmy Savile scandal, not to mention the misguided Philip Schofield/David Cameron television interview and the Newsnight debacle? Ironically perhaps, we actually chose November 19 for the London Network launch because it was International Men’s Day! Either way, mishandling of the child abuse scandal has been wholly unhelpful, since it has unlocked some incredibly ignorant thinking about men working with children – including comments from too many of those who should know better, affirming and embedding some pretty negative mind-sets and a mob mentality.

Worst of all (but unfortunately not unsurprisingly), we have many people assuming that an allegation is sufficient proof of a charge of abuse. Have they forgotten that in this country the rule of law declares you are innocent until proven guilty? This week the call to ignore this basic human right has been staggering, though sadly very familiar to men working with children who almost inevitably have to prove their innocence once an allegation is made. Surely the point of a police force is to find evidence to support an allegation before charging a person, and for a judge or jury to then decide on their innocence or guilt. It is this very process that ensures well-founded allegations are distinguishable from the false variety. This is the law and the rights of all men.

We have been supporting the notion of men into childcare for many years in our own LEYF way. We think it’s a good idea to have gender-balanced workforces. We think it’s good for staff and good for children; what is more, we think it’s good for business. And now we can finally present research that bears that out: both staff and parents agree that having men in the nursery is a good thing.

The journey to this apparently simple conclusion began with us taking advice from our own male staff. They told us they wanted to work in childcare because they were interested in child development and education, liked children and enjoyed the team spirit of working in a nursery. We learned a great deal from our male staff about the support they needed from colleagues, but also from management, to feel protected when or if they face unpleasant comments, allegations or negative parental responses. We then talked to parents, and heard how staff deal with the anxieties of fathers about men looking after their daughters, especially parents from more macho cultures. We considered issues such as isolation and how it feels to be a trophy staff member, and changed induction and recruitment policies to try and make sure we addressed these, including placing two men together in a nursery rather than spreading them thinly across more settings, and where possible giving a male apprentice a male mentor.

Richard at LEYF's Furze Children's Centre Nursery

Previous research (what there was of it) identified the main barrier to entry as negative stereotypical attitudes, assuming that men who worked with children were more likely to be paedophiles. Our research confirmed this. We found that 60.7% of staff said they felt the main reason for low numbers of men in the sector was because men were not encouraged to join the profession by others, whilst 51.8% believed it was because of society’s attitude toward men in childcare. By contrast, when considering the benefits of men working in childcare, 75% believed it was very important for men to be seen as nurturing and sensitive role models, whilst 66% felt they could change society’s attitudes towards men working with children.

We also asked children (23) aged 4 what type of activities enjoyed most with male staff. It was interesting that the only time children commented about staff gender was in reference to very common examples of society’s gender-stereotyping, for instance the colour pink and wearing of jewellery.

Michael at LEYF's Angel Community Nursery

We know that most people assume men will be better at football, rough and tumble and other similarly physical games, and so we should expect to see children showing a preferences for male staff in those areas. Not at all! Our research Men in Childcare: Does it matter to children? What do they say? in fact found children predominantly preferred to play football and rough and tumble games with women. They did not seek men out to play construction or trains, and chose men and women equally to cook with. Superhero play, on the other hand, confirmed research findings as an activity where men could bring something special, with almost all the children in the research project choosing to carry out this particular activity with a man.

Worryingly, children saw reading and singing as a female activity, with the majority choosing female staff for such activities. Challenging this view is critical, given the worrying data about boys’ literacy skills and the continuing negative attitude that reading is for girls only! Unless men provide positive gender-modelling in literacy, boys attending the nursery – particularly those who do not have male reading role-models at home – will continue to see reading and literacy as done only by girls and women. Considering future success in education is so often predicated on competence in literacy, failing to address will almost guarantee failure for a great many young boys.

Conor at LEYF's Katharine Bruce Community NurseryAs a result, a greater attention given to the role of men supporting children’s literacy – particularly boys – presents an exciting opportunity to devise new ways of working with fathers; helping to raise awareness of how  important it is for them to read with their sons and being seen reading for pleasure. Again, this needs to be linked to broader strategies aimed at  developing parent engagement and extending ways of enriching the home learning environment.

So the London Network of Men in Childcare has a number of things to do:

  • Support male childcare workers
  • Present a positive and coherent message to London; that men who work with children are doing so because they are good practitioners and, like their female colleagues, are keen to support every child receive the best education possible
  • Conduct action research on ways to improve education for boys
  • Disseminate ideas about better gender-balanced workplaces
  • Engage Dads directly in some of the research
  • Bring a London focus to working in childcare

Ultimately, I hope, the outcome will be a more gender-balanced workforce that listens to children.

So come on – let London lead the way!

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  1. #1 by Gary on November 23, 2012 - 4:37 pm

    June, I agree completely with the need to raise barriers in order to knock them down. For too long in the sector we have had a ‘halo & horns’ view of men in childcare and raising the awareness of child abuse in general, which is a horrific reality for many children is never negative if it wakes people up to the suffering some children face.

    I would love to work as a man in childcare without the stigma of ‘possible abuser’ which has followed many of us for so long, but we have to acknowledge that this stereotype exists in order to educate people that, in the majority of cases, it is not true.

    If nothing else the Plymouth review should show us that any gender working in childcare could possibly pose a risk to children and that it is vigilance and effective practice that safeguards children NOT blinkered reliance on outdated views on gender. Children are safe in early years settings because we keep them safe, regardless of our gender.

    • #2 by June O'Sullivan on November 23, 2012 - 5:32 pm

      Gary

      What a very pertinent point. Also as you so rightly say, reliance on stereotypes is dangerous. Gender balanced nurseries with caring vigilant staff is the only way to go.

  2. #3 by Alice on November 21, 2012 - 11:23 am

    Wow what a joy.

    How many times have folk tried to raise the profile on men in childcare. I watched a quick presentation by 4 guys reflecting on men in childcare at the early years world forum. Our Scottish chap Kenny Spence was among them. That was four years ago.
    Although I believe it is still active in Scotland I have never seen anything advertised and the male colleagues I work with have never been invited to anything.

    Working with parents and with young Dads I strongly believe that we need to something dramatic to raise the awareness of having a male role model/friend/playmate in our settings. It gives children and young families a positive view on the contributions of all in the life of a child.

    Well done LEYF I may send my male colleagues, employees and students to the next event!

    Alice

  3. #4 by Andrew on November 20, 2012 - 10:55 pm

    I love the promotion of men in Early Years Education but I really don’t see the point in highlighting the negative issue of child abuse at all. Can we not just keep an article on men in this sector 100% positive??

    • #5 by June O'Sullivan on November 21, 2012 - 10:45 pm

      No, Andrew we cannot keep it 100% positive because we have to raise the barriers so we can knock them down.

  4. #6 by Luton Street Community Nursery on November 19, 2012 - 11:01 am

    Good Morning

    Just to say good luck tonight! And I think the BLOG was good timing.

    Julie

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